Once i first bought DirecWay i thought it would be fast enough for online gaming, but what i didnt know was i had another thing coming to me , i have extreme lag, but is the anything i can do or any different settings i could use for Cablenut 4.6, that could help it speed up a little? Any tips or suggestions would be a great deal of help. Thanks!

In regards to the lag, definitely not.  Speed, maybe, but there isn't much you can do to tweak it. (assuming you have a 6000 or 7000 modem)
The lag is so high because of a combination of sending a signal a total of 88,000 miles, plus network congestion (adds a lot in DWay's case...)  Your typical ping with DWay will be 800-1500ms


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